Grief, Eight Myths About Myth 1: We only grieve deaths Reality: We grieve all losses. Myth 2: Only family members grieve. Reality: All who are attached grieve. Myth 3: Grief is an emotional reaction. Reality: Grief is manifested in many ways. Myth 4: Individuals should leave grieving at home. Reality: We cannot control where we grieve. Myth 5: We slowly and predictably recover from grief. Reality: Grief is an uneven process, a roller coaster with no timeline. Myth 6: Grieving means letting go of the person who has died. Reality: We never fully detach. Myth 7: Grief finally ends. Reality: Over time most people learn to live with loss. Myth 8: Grievers are best left alone. Reality: Grievers need opportunities to share their memories and grief, and to receive support! author unknown